Happiness Dispenser





 be soft and pliable

Flexible, kind

stand firm, Strong

 but Capable 

       of great weakness, fair in body

and Fawn in heart, never a feint.


 be enough, Just

    Are you ever

Enough?


 no questions, Fight

    have no depth 

 be a Mystery

        entirely Dynamic, multi-dimensional

Until you lie flat. 


  be filled, content

     You have value. Not as a dispensary,

only Receptacle. 

  


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